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Date night with nowhere to go and nothing to do? One of these magical pop up events in Vancouver should do just the trick.
Because why do dinner and a movie when you can play wizard-themed mini golf or sip on cocktails at a Peter Pan inspired bar? You can do it all at Vancouver Alpine Club.
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Embark on a 90-minute adventure to a place designed to keep you young and make sure you never grow up.
You’ll be able to experience the wonder of the Blue Lagoon, climb aboard the Jolly Roger, and hang out at the Lost Boys Hideout. Of course, there will also be all kinds of magical cocktails sprinkled with a little bit of pixie dust.
When: On now until July 17, 2022
Where: Vancouver Alpen Club, 4875 Victoria Drive
Cost: $45 per person | Tickets
Go down the rabbit hole for an immersive 90-minute topsy-turvy journey into the magical realm of Wonderland (but with cocktails).
For those both curious and curiouser, this event is described as the “tea party to end all tea parties.” It features riddles, challenges, “eat me” cookies and bespoke Wonderland cocktails.
When: On now until July 31, 2022
Where: Vancouver Alpen Club, 4875 Victoria Drive
Cost: $46.50 per person | Tickets
Test your putt-putt skills on this crazy golf course inspired by fantasy and fiction. There are nine wand-erful holes, where you’ll find smoking cauldrons, tasty beverages and magical portals along the way.
You may even have to cast a spell or two in order to complete the mystical challenge, before winding down at the bar.
When: On now until Aug. 7, 2022
Where: Vancouver Alpen Club, 4875 Victoria Drive
Cost: $18 per person | Tickets
What do you get when you mix a theatre show with an escape room? The Wizard’s Den. This one-of-a-kind 90-minute experience features riddles, cocktails and magic.
Expect the unexpected as you go on an epic adventure into a world of fantasy and boozy potions, all while trying to solve a series of riddles.
When: On now until Aug. 14, 2022
Where: Vancouver Alpen Club, 4875 Victoria Drive
Cost: $40 per person | Tickets
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If you’ve been starting to think about all the fun things to do this summer in Vancouver, you might want to add one of these outdoor movie nights to your idea list.
The Evo Summer Cinema is coming back to Stanley Park next month and they’ve got a whole bunch of exciting movies lined up. The outdoor cinema is playing films every Tuesday from July 5 to August 23 on Second Beach in Stanley Park.
The company that is organizing the Evo Summer Cinema will also have other smaller outdoor theatre events scattered throughout Vancouver this summer.
Other locations will include The Polygon Gallery, The Shipyards Commons, Civic Plaza, Grouse Mountain and Vancouver Art Gallery Square.
Evo Summer Cinema. Evo Summer Cinema Press Release
At the Stanley Park outdoor theatre, no reservations are required and the seating area can hold up to 5000 people, so it is all on a first-come-first-serve basis.
If you do want to reserve, the cinema is also offering an option for a reserved VIP seating system for up to 200 guests. The VIP package will include cottage-style chairs and guaranteed seating in the “VIP Zone,” the Evo Summer Cinema website said.
There are so many fun movies set to play like, Lion King, Zoolander, Top Gun, Jurassic Park, Dirty Dancing, Grease and Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.
The movies will start after sunset and it is recommended to bring your own chairs and blankets. Smoking and drinking alcoholic beverages are not allowed in the outdoor cinema area.
Outdoor movie theatre.Evo Summer Cinema Press Release
This whole event sounds like such a fun idea and it would be a great spot to spend a summer evening with friends.
Evo Summer Cinema
Address: Stanley Park, BC
Why You Need To Go: It would be such a great activity for the evening to relax and unwind, after having a beach day at one of the beaches nearby.
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The crowd was sighing in relief, the players were milling around the court after the Warriors’ rough-and-tumble Game 4 victory, and Mike Brown and Draymond Green headed straight for each other, then shared a long, strong hug that communicated a multitude of emotions.
A big man’s embrace. A moment when two people who have meant so much to the Warriors seemed to lean into and blend into each other for a bit, sharing things only they could know.
So much happened Monday before the Warriors ever played the Grizzlies in this crucial game at Chase Center. So much pain and transition and surprise and adapting on the fly. So much that had nothing to do with each other. And so much that had everything to do with each other and the community of this team.
Early in the morning, news broke that Draymond’s former Michigan State teammate, Adreian Payne, had been shot and killed in Florida. Later, Brown was officially hired as the Sacramento Kings’ head coach. Then, a few hours before tipoff, Steve Kerr tested positive for COVID-19, which meant he couldn’t coach the game (and probably Game 5) and Brown suddenly was the guy, as he’d been for 11 games during the 2017 postseason when Kerr was suffering from the effects of a botched back surgery.
So much going on.
“I love Draymond, you know, and when he hurts, we all hurt,” Brown said after the game. “So that was tough on me personally. Then to find out Steve was out, too, it was an up-and-down or emotional day for me, too.”
But the Warriors had to get through this game. It was not a small game. The 101-98 victory, as ugly as it looked, gave them a 3-1 lead as they head to Memphis for Wednesday’s Game 5 and a shot to end this grueling series. The Warriors very much did not want to lose this game. So they had to deal with everything as it all came down Monday, which was pretty much all at once.
They had the perfect guy to handle it, though. Which the Warriors knew, because Brown has handled this before.
“You know, we’ve done this drill before,” Brown said after the game.
And once Kerr called to tell him he wasn’t feeling well and then later that he’d tested positive, Brown did the perfect Warriors thing: He leaned on the dynastic figures of this franchise. Led by letting them lead, too. Leaned on them while they leaned on him.
“Andre (Iguodala), I know he’s not playing, but just his voice, his presence, he’s always saying the right thing,” Brown said. “It uplifts all of us. And for me, it uplifted me. I told him, I told Draymond, I said: ‘I need you guys tonight. I need you guys. I’m going to lean on you guys.’ And those guys stayed steady the whole game, Andre on the bench obviously and Draymond out on the floor, and we found a way. You can do that when you have Steph Curry and (Jordan Poole) out on the floor.”
Maybe the clearest indication of the currents that flowed through the players and the staff came when Brown declined to speak about the Kings job because he wanted to remain focused on the Warriors’ situation and didn’t want to talk about the Kings until his full attention was on his next role. And then, about 20 minutes later, Draymond patiently stood in the interview room waiting for Curry’s presser to end, then politely said he couldn’t talk at length right now.
“So my emotions are kind of all over the place now,” Draymond said. “I’m going to go home and just sit on my podcast and talk because I can pause that and cry if I need to cry. I don’t like to cry in front of people. What I will say is (my wife) Hazel and I are going to donate $100,000 to a fund in Adreian’s name.
“I call on my Spartan family, coach (Tom) Izzo,
“But I can do it at my own speed and at my own space. I apologize. I will give you guys the greatest press conference after Wednesday’s game, but I just don’t have it in me tonight, I truly apologize.”
It would be a cop out to say the run of events leading up to the game caused the Warriors’ incredibly sluggish first three quarters Monday. They also knew Ja Morant was unlikely to play because of his injured knee, which could’ve led to a Warriors letdown. And also, the Warriors just couldn’t shoot for a long time in this game.
They trailed after the first quarter. They could barely score in the second quarter and trailed at halftime, too. Curry, Klay Thompson and Poole were all struggling. Everybody on the Warriors was struggling. They trailed 69-62 going into the fourth thanks to Desmond Bane’s 32-foot buzzer-beater.
But the Warriors have been together for too long and have held together for too long to despair in the face of any of that.
“I had a feeling we were going to win the game when Bane hit the tough shot to end the third, we just willed it to four, and I just knew we could,” Klay said. “We were going to win the game. I just had a feeling. It was ugly, but at this time of year, all that matters is that win.”
Curry got hot in the fourth quarter. Klay made a huge jumper from the corner. The Warriors defense surged. The Grizzlies offense, without Morant, hit the wall. Draymond brushed off his foul trouble and stopped Jaren Jackson Jr. at a few crucial moments.
Brown ran the game calmly. He didn’t call a million timeouts. He didn’t veer from his and Kerr’s rotation plan. He didn’t try weird things to show the Kings and the world how gutsy and creative he can be. He just ran the team. And when it was over, he accepted congratulations from the rest of the coaching staff, patted a few players as they headed to the locker room and beelined for Draymond.
“Yeah, it was an emotional day,” Klay said. “Prayers up to Adreian and his family, and Draymond, I know they played together. Just a terrible loss of life, and his legacy will live on. It was just a sad day.
“Really happy for Mike B., though. He’s going to do great things for Sacramento. His head-coaching record for Warriors playoff games, I think, is undefeated. We did miss Steve a lot, just his voice, his presence. But we’ve been here before in 2017 when Mike took over and we rolled off a lot of wins. I reflected on that a lot. Just an up-and-down day as far as emotions were going.”
The Warriors are going to miss Brown. They know that. He joined the staff for the 2016-17 season, just in time for the arrival of Kevin Durant and to fill in for Kerr during those 2017 playoff games, on the way to a championship.
“Coach (Kerr) talked about it, I think this morning, about what (Brown has) meant to our team and to that coaching staff,” Curry said. “And just maybe the way they approach it all year in terms of everybody having a voice for us and being able to hear that throughout the year, it makes situations like tonight a little bit easier of a transition. He had a lot of good words tonight.
“I don’t know in the history if you could name the head coach of two teams in 24 hours. He’s continuing to set many trends.”
Of course, being the Warriors in a moment of victory, it had to have humor, too. During his TNT postgame interview, Curry joked that when things were going poorly, it felt like the whole team had been traded to the Kings. (He tried to backtrack a bit later, which was almost as amusing as the one-liner.)
“Yeah, we got a lot of jokesters on the team,” Brown said with a smile when asked about the Curry crack, “and I’m OK with it.”
You get used to that kind of thing when you’re around the Warriors. You get used to major swings of emotion, surprises, drama, passion and a lot of victories. And at the end, sometimes, you just hug somebody who needs it, and you realize you need it, too.
(Photo Mike Brown and Draymond Green: Joe Murphy / NBAE via Getty Images)
The crowd was sighing in relief, the players were milling around the court after the Warriors’ rough-and-tumble Game 4 victory, and Mike Brown and Draymond Green headed straight for each other, then shared a long, strong hug that communicated a multitude of emotions.
A big man’s embrace. A moment when two people who have meant so much to the Warriors seemed to lean into and blend into each other for a bit, sharing things only they could know.
So much happened Monday before the Warriors ever played the Grizzlies in this crucial game at Chase Center. So much pain and transition and surprise and adapting on the fly. So much that had nothing to do with each other. And so much that had everything to do with each other and the community of this team.
Early in the morning, news broke that Draymond’s former Michigan State teammate, Adreian Payne, had been shot and killed in Florida. Later, Brown was officially hired as the Sacramento Kings’ head coach. Then, a few hours before tipoff, Steve Kerr tested positive for COVID-19, which meant he couldn’t coach the game (and probably Game 5) and that Brown suddenly was the guy, as he’d been for 11 games during the 2017 postseason when Kerr was suffering from the effects of a botched back surgery.
So much going on.
“I love Draymond, you know, and when he hurts, we all hurt,” Brown said after the game. “So that was tough on me personally. Then to find out Steve was out, too, it was an up-and-down or emotional day for me, too.”
But the Warriors had to get through this game. It was not a small game. The 101-98 victory, as ugly as it looked, gave them a 3-1 lead as they head to Memphis for Wednesday’s Game 5 and a shot to end this grueling series. The Warriors very much did not want to lose this game. So they had to deal with everything as it all came down Monday, which was pretty much all at once.
They had the perfect guy to handle it, though. Which the Warriors knew, because Brown has handled this before.
“You know, we’ve done this drill before,” Brown said after the game.
And once Kerr called to tell him that he wasn’t feeling good and then later that he’d tested positive, Brown did the perfect Warriors thing: He leaned on the dynastic figures of this franchise. Led by letting them lead, too. Leaned on them while they leaned on him.
“Andre (Iguodala), I know he’s not playing, but just his voice, his presence, he’s always saying the right thing,” Brown said. “It uplifts all of us. And for me, it uplifted me. I told him, I told Draymond, I said, ‘I need you guys tonight. I need you guys. I’m going to lean on you guys.’ And those guys stayed steady the whole game, Andre on the bench obviously and Draymond out on the floor, and we found a way. You can do that when you have Steph Curry and (Jordan Poole) out on the floor.”
Maybe the clearest indication of the currents that flowed through the players and the staff came when Brown declined to speak about the Kings job because he wanted to remain focused on the Warriors’ situation and didn’t want to talk about the Kings until his full attention was on his next role. And then, about 20 minutes later, Draymond patiently stood in the interview room waiting for Curry’s presser to end, then politely said he couldn’t talk at length right now.
“So my emotions are kind of all over the place now,” Draymond said. “I’m going to go home and just sit on my podcast and talk because I can pause that and cry if I need to cry. I don’t like to cry in front of people. What I will say is (wife) Hazel and I are going to donate $100,000 to a fund in Adreian’s name.
“I call on my Spartan family, coach (Tom) Izzo,
“But I can do it at my own speed and at my own space. I apologize. I will give you guys the greatest press conference after Wednesday’s game, but I just don’t have it in me tonight, I truly apologize.”
It would be a copout to say that the Warriors’ incredibly sluggish first three quarters Monday were caused by the run of events leading up to the game. They also knew that Ja Morant was unlikely to play because of his injured knee, which could’ve led to a Warriors letdown. And also, the Warriors just couldn’t shoot for a long time in this game.
They trailed after the first quarter. They could barely score in the second quarter and trailed at halftime, too. Curry, Klay Thompson and Poole were all struggling. Everybody on the Warriors was struggling. They trailed 69-62 going into the fourth thanks to Desmond Bane’s 32-foot buzzer-beater.
But the Warriors have been together for too long and have held together for too long to despair in the face of any of that.
“I had a feeling we were going to win the game when Bane hit the tough shot to end the third, we just willed it to four, and I just knew we could,” Klay said. “We were going to win the game. I just had a feeling. It was ugly, but at this time of year, all that matters is that win.”
Curry got hot in the fourth quarter. Klay made a huge jumper from the corner. The Warriors defense surged. The Grizzlies offense, without Morant, hit the wall. Draymond brushed off his foul trouble and stopped Jaren Jackson Jr. at a few crucial moments.
Brown ran the game calmly. He didn’t call a million timeouts. He didn’t veer from his and Kerr’s rotation plan. He didn’t try weird things to show the Kings and the world how gutsy and creative he can be. He just ran the team. And when it was over, he accepted congratulations from the rest of the coaching staff, patted a few players as they headed to the locker room and beelined for Draymond.
“Yeah, it was an emotional day,” Klay said. “Prayers up to Adreian and his family, and Draymond, I know they played together. Just a terrible loss of life, and his legacy will live on. It was just a sad day.
“Really happy for Mike B., though. He’s going to do great things for Sacramento. His head-coaching record for Warriors playoff games, I think, is undefeated. We did miss Steve a lot, just his voice, his presence. But we’ve been here before in 2017 when Mike took over and we rolled off a lot of wins. I reflected on that a lot. Just an up-and-down day as far as emotions were going.”
The Warriors are going to miss Brown. They know that. He joined the staff for the 2016-17 season, just in time for the arrival of Kevin Durant and to fill in for Kerr during those 2017 playoff games, on the way to a championship.
“Coach (Kerr) talked about it, I think this morning, about what (Brown has) meant to our team and to that coaching staff,” Curry said. “And just maybe the way they approach it all year in terms of everybody having a voice for us and being able to hear that throughout the year, it makes situations like tonight a little bit easier of a transition. He had a lot of good words tonight.
“I don’t know in the history if you could name the head coach of two teams in 24 hours. He’s continuing to set many trends.”
Of course, being the Warriors in a moment of victory, it had to have humor, too. During his TNT postgame interview, Curry joked that when things were going poorly, it felt like the whole team had been traded to the Kings. (He tried to backtrack a bit later, which was almost as amusing as the one-liner.)
“Yeah, we got a lot of jokesters on the team,” Brown said with a smile when asked about the Curry crack, “and I’m OK with it.”
You get used to that kind of thing when you’re around the Warriors. You get used to major swings of emotion, surprises, drama, passion and a lot of victories. And at the end, sometimes, you just hug somebody who needs it, and you realize you need it, too.
(Photo Mike Brown and Draymond Green: Joe Murphy/NBAE via Getty Images)
Photo shown above by Innis Casey Photography
by Nancy D. Lackey Shaffer
nshaffer@timespublications.com
The wedding day is meant to be one of the most beautiful, memorable and special events in a person’s life. A lovely location, flowers, delicious food and the betrothed couple bedecked in their nuptial finery are all necessary elements for this most splendid of occasions. But a wedding holds so much more on its tulle-and-lace-draped shoulders. This is a place where the personality, culture and values of the couple take center stage, and no two celebrations are alike.
To truly create the wedding of someone’s dreams requires an extraordinarily personal touch. Such careful craftsmanship is the raison d’etre of Wheat and Honey Events.
“We like to be available to our brides and grooms from the time they hire us until the end of their wedding,” explains owner Annette Kirkhuff. “A lot of people say I’m like a Mama Bear — I care about their weddings as much as their parents do.”
Wedding coordinators come in all flavors (and price points), of course. There are those who will help you on the big day, directing florists and caterers, getting guests seated and prompting the walk down the aisle. There are those who will work with the couple for a month or so beforehand, helping to organize and finalize the details. But Kirkhuff prefers to work with her couples for a year or more, to make sure every aspect is handled without a hitch.
“I’m not a fan of the ‘coordinator for a month or a day’ model,” she says. “We spend a lot of time together. I need to understand their vision and their ideas.”
Wheat and Honey is based in Simi Valley, but puts on weddings (and other events) all over Southern California. Often, Kirkhuff comes on board once the couple has set a date and booked the venue — although she’s also been the one to help them find their location, too. Regardless of which comes first, Wheat and Honey is involved throughout the entire planning process.
“We work with the bride and groom from the beginning to the end,” Kirkhuff confirms.
Communication is key — to get a sense for what the couple is imagining, but also to get to know them. What do they like and dislike? What are their challenges? What kind of budget do they have, and what are their top priorities? Kirkhuff is fully available to offer advice, support and expertise to hammer out all the details.
With an excellent eye for design, Kirkhuff will execute the look and feel of a wedding that reflects what the couple envisions, whether that’s a sophisticated black-tie affair or a rustically elegant outdoor soiree. But first and foremost, she sees the design process as a group endeavor.
“We like to collaborate with our brides and grooms to make their wedding personal and collaborate on design,” she says. “When they walk away, they can feel like it’s *their* wedding.”
But Kirkhuff’s skills go way beyond the look of the event. She’s fully prepared to guide her clients through every step of the wedding planning process. Where and how to spend their budget, finding the right vendors (from rentals and caterers to photographers and florists to hair and makeup people), where flexibility might be required.
“We get an idea for a budget and a vision and prioritize vendors — what’s most important? We don’t want any surprises on the day of . . . .[Couples] spend a lot of money on these weddings. They need to be executed the way you talk about.”
Kirkhuff grew up in North Hollywood, and came to Ventura County in 2008, working for Command Performance Catering. As the sales and event manager, she flawlessly executed around 150 events a year. A photographer friend, who had seen Kirkhuff in action, noted that she had more to offer than just catering skills. Eventually, she decided to take a risk and branch out on her own.
In 2016, she opened Wheat and Honey Events with her daughter, Katie, who had run a small company called A Day to Remember. (Katie now lives in Texas and operates Wheat and Honey Events in the Dallas area.) With years of experience under her belt and a solid reputation for professionalism and customer service, she quickly established Wheat and Honey as a leader in the industry, putting on dozens of wedding, corporate and nonprofit events every year. For 2022, the company has been nominated in no less than three categories — Best Overall Vendor, Best Event Design and Best Wedding Planner — by California Wedding Day magazine.
Kirkhuff’s knowledge of all things related to events no doubt plays a role in Wheat and Honey’s success. But it’s her personal touch and genuine love for what she does that has couples clamoring for her services when they’re ready to tie the knot.
“It isn’t just a job for us,” says Kirkhuff. “I spend a year with the bride and groom and we say goodbye at the end of their wedding. We miss them! Developing the relationships with vendors as well as families is one of the things I love most about this business.”
“When the pandemic hit, it affected our business . . . along with every other business in the world,” says Kirkhuff.
The weddings may have been put on hold, but she was still there for her couples, who needed her more than ever.
“We worked with clients to move their wedding dates into 2021. Some we’d been working with for over 30 months! We all work together in this industry to make this as smooth as possible for our clients.”
Kirkhuff kept busy with some style shoots and mirco-weddings, but never stopped letting her clients know that they were valued and still had her support. Again, that personal touch for which Wheat and Honey Events is known was a balm to many couples nervous about COVID, their weddings and everything else.
When vaccines became available, weddings were back on the books in 2021, and it hasn’t slowed down since. According to Kirkhuff, clients are pleased that things have opened up even more in 2022, with mask mandates dropped, for example. But there are still conversations to be had in the wake of the coronavirus
“We talk a little bit about if COVID hits again,” she explains. “We have clauses in our contracts to protect our clients, too. And of course, we are fully compliant with all health and safety regulations.”
A few things Kirkhuff emphasizes again and again about the wedding process: Communication is incredibly important, and the vision of the wedding couple is paramount. Kirkhuff also feels very strongly that the betrothed should be able to *enjoy* their big day . . . not feel stressed out about it. From start to finish, Wheat and Honey Events will guide, advise and support clients through every aspect. As Kirkhuff states on the company’s website: “We at Wheat and Honey Events . . . allow you to be a guest at your own event.”
“A wedding coordinator and planner needs to have a hospitality heart,” Kirkhuff insists. “Couples should see happy faces from all the vendors and guests to make sure their day is a loving day. And they need to know that it’s all organized — so they can relax.”
Wheat and Honey Events, annette@wheatandhoneyevents.com, 805-624-9350, www.wheatandhoneyevents.com.
SIDEBAR
hed// Trends for 2022
Annette Kirkhuff of Wheat and Honey Events is quick to say that every wedding is as unique as the people getting married, and trends can be hard to determine. But there are a few things that seem to have become popular the last few years.
dek// White on White
“White is really big . . . People are doing a lot of white weddings, with white colors and white florals, or mixing white with soft florals.”
She attributes some of this to the prevalence of Pinterest and Instagram, both of which are “huge in our business.” A bride sees a photo of something she likes, and tries to emulate that. And on these platforms, “white has been big these last two years.”
dek// Colored suiting
Interestingly enough, she is seeing more color showing up in menswear, and a move away from high formality.
“I’ve seen a lot of tuxes with color . . . and more casual weddings with cocktail attire rather than black tie.”
dek// Sleeves in style
For wedding dresses, Kirkhuff says, “Trending right now are sleeves. A lot of brides are able to have sleeves that are detachable — so that they can take them off for the reception, for example.”
dek// Breaking with tradition
As relationships and conventions have changed, so have wedding couples and parties. Weddings for same-sex or nonbinary couples are on the rise, and attendants run the gamut.
“A couple of my weddings have had flower boys and men rather than flower girls. I’ve also seen bridesmen and groomswomen.”
dek// Live musicians with DJs
“I’m finding a lot of brides and grooms bring in a live DJ — maybe a drummer or another musician playing while the DJ is spinning.”
dek// Food for thought on food trucks
Food trucks have grown in popularity, particularly for outdoor and more casual weddings, but Kirkhuff cautions against jumping too quickly on this particular bandwagon.
“Food trucks don’t work for traditional weddings,” she says. “They don’t have people serving the guests and taking care of them. Sometimes the bride and groom don’t feel like food is their priority, and that’s fine . . . However, it’s important to have really good service no matter what you’re eating.”